A fascinating view from Avivah Wittenberg-Cox on navigating one’s career
and relationships as a woman in the 2020s, in which she concludes that
women need either a truly supportive partner, or no partner at all.
“‘I didn’t know,’ many of the men I interviewed told me after their
wives left. To me, this sounds a lot like what corporate leaders tell
me after their most senior female executives quit. They hadn’t
expected them to leave, hadn’t quite understood how upset they were by
the attitudes, the lack of recognition, or the promotion of the less
competent man down the hall.
“But in the end, underneath it all, it isn’t true that they didn’t
know. The reality is they didn’t care. They didn’t listen – because
they didn’t think they had to.”
There’s lots of work to be done by men – and the companies that they
still overwhelmingly run – to fix this, and Wittenberg-Cox has a useful
starting list. #